When people use the fact that Dean has said things like “We don’t swing that way” to complete strangers as proof of the fact that Dean could never be non-straight, I don’t know whether to laugh or cry, because they’ve clearly never been a queer person in an environment where coming out randomly could endanger your reputation, mental and physical well-being, and where coming out to your family would mean going against everything that’s expected of you and that you’ve been taught.


gender roles men could try to crush

  • talking over women
  • not being concerned about women receiving street harassment
  • centralizing women’s thoughts and opinions on how they feel
  • accepting ideas that promote rape culture

the only gender role men seem to care about crushing

  • watching shows primarily geared towards little girls
  • liking glittery things
  • literally anything that doesn’t involve altering their behavior towards women